By Diane
Sears
When asked
what she wanted to be as a child, Cheryle Hays offered a candid and sobering
reflection: “I had no dreams.”
Growing up
in a home defined by limitation and verbal abuse, Hays was told that her future
could only include being a housewife, a nurse, a secretary or a junior high
teacher — never a doctor, leader or innovator.
“My dad
reminded me often how stupid and ugly I was,” she recalled. “So, it wasn’t a
thing I wanted to be — it was a person I wanted to be. I wanted to chart my own
course and become the best person I could be.”
Today, Hays
is doing just that — and more. She is the founder of InPower Strategists in
Fort Worth, a leadership consultancy that bridges the gap between mindset and
mission, self-leadership and organizational impact.
“I teach
leaders to not just understand themselves, but to strategically apply that
understanding with choice to IN-power themselves so they, in turn, can empower
others,” she said.
Her work is
rooted in helping others unlock their potential and that of their teams through
a unique framework she developed: Reflect, Reframe, Respond. She refers to
herself as a “visionary” and a “Renaissance woman.”
“I’m not a
victim or a survivor or a thriver — those labels had me always looking back,
living an ‘in spite of’ life,” she said. “Now I’m a visionary — choosing to
live a ‘because of life’, reframing my experiences based on the strengths I
discovered and lessons I learned.”
A Life
Built on Yes
Hays’ story
is unconventional, winding and incredibly impactful. She has been a legal
secretary, a belly dancer, a network engineer for the United States Navy and a
strategist for tech startups. Each step in her career has been characterized by
a “yes, and” mentality that involves saying yes to opportunity — and then
learning how to succeed at it.
It began
with technology. In the 1990s, after impressing a vendor with her word
processing skills, she was hired to implement a local area network, long before
networking was a mainstream field.
“Someone
saw what I could do and said, ‘We want you to network the City of McKinney,’”
she explains. That opportunity snowballed into more advanced work, including
installing a gateway communications system for the US Navy. Similar equipment
she directly worked on was later gifted to the Smithsonian Institution.
But as her
family grew, so did her desire to have more control over her time and legacy.
Hays pivoted into leadership education, eventually developing curriculum for
Tarrant County College.
Still, it
wasn’t until 2019 that she formally launched her own business. By late 2022,
she committed to building it full-time. “It wasn’t because I needed more
money,” she says. “It was this burning sense that I needed to get this message
out to help more people.”
Purpose
Over Profit
The
consultancy is structured around three pillars: personal growth, leadership
empowerment and business results. At its core is Hays’ belief that “we are all
leaders — even if we’re only leading ourselves.”
Her work
with individuals often involves deep self-exploration, starting with the
psychological triggers that influence behavior. “Self-awareness doesn’t work if
you’re emotionally triggered,” she explained. “That’s why we start with
‘Reflect.’ You have to understand what you’re carrying with you.”
For
businesses, Hays uses her leadership knowledge through consulting and workshops
and incorporates the Predictive Index, a data-driven framework that guides
leadership decisions and team dynamics. “It’s not about fitting people into
boxes,” she said. “It’s about helping leaders guide their teams in the way they
should go — not the way you think they should go.”
She also
speaks frequently on stages across the country, addressing audiences on
everything from leadership and career growth to the evolving impact of AI on
workplace psychology. “AI is creating psychological safety issues that many
companies are not addressing,” Hays warned. “People are emotionally reactive,
and that undermines performance, collaboration and innovation.”
More Than a
Business — A Calling
Hays often
refers to her work as a calling, a sentiment that was affirmed during a
speaker’s camp in 2023. A woman she had never met approached her and shared a
piece of scripture, Matthew 7:7-8: Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye
shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. The stranger told her: “God
heard you. He knows the message you have. This will be your best season yet.”
Hays, who
had been volunteering her time since 2016, took it as divine encouragement to
keep going. “That gave me goosebumps,” she said. “It was confirmation I was on
the right path.”
Hays
measures success not in revenue but in ripple effects. “If I can help you
become a better leader, that also makes you a better follower, a better parent,
a better neighbor, a better colleague. And someone watching you will be changed
by your change,” she said.
She dreams
of growing her team so she can make an even bigger impact — but always grounded
in humility. “I don’t have all the answers. But I ask good questions. And
sometimes, that’s exactly what someone needs to hear.”
For a woman
once told she could never be a leader, Cheryle Hays has become a beacon of
what’s possible when you lead yourself first — and then turn around to help
others do the same.
To Learn
more about InPower Strategists, visit cherylehays.com.